May 5, 2009


I love to encourage others. LOVE it. When I was an intern at Twin Lakes we took the spiritual gifts test and one of my top gifts was exhortation. I know, it sort of sounds like a sneeze when you say it. But it means "the act of inciting to laudable deeds; incitement to that which is good or commendable; language intended to incite and encourage; advice; counsel; admonition." Prior to taking that test I'd never really thought about my love of encouraging others very specifically. I just figured I was really verbal. That shift in understanding my love for encouragement has been huge. It has helped me understand the power of words, the importance of lifting others up, and the fact that most of us, myself included, have a pretty difficult time being encouraged. It also opened my eyes to the fact that I LOVE to be encouraged. I might have a hard time hearing the compliments, but I love to hear kind words from someone who cares for me.

So. Yesterday I arrived home [to my NEW home...expect a post on that in the near future] completely DRENCHED from a run in the torrential downpour weather forecasters like to call rain to find a package waiting for me on the counter. My FIRST piece of mail at my new house. It was from Kathy. She'd told me she was putting together a little something to help me train for the half marathon I'm running in July. But it was SO much more than just a little something. I opened it to find a poster full of encouragement, inspiring women marathoners, and a picture of a gun firing peanuts [inside joke]. There was also a water running training schedule [great for off days and rehabbing bum knees]. AND. There were NINE CDs:
For the Love of my Life Volumes 1 & 2 [nice, chill, relaxing tunes]
Not Just Arm Candy Volumes 1-6 [running mixes]
Kara Goucher Endurance Mix [LOVE her, also a running mix]

Kath, you're the best. Thank you for ALL the encouragement, advice and love.


rebs said...

you really are the best encourager i know.
and i'm glad you got to be encouraged in such a sweet way too.

you are incredible and i miss you like crazy crazy.

Haley said...

Thanks Rebs, so much! YOU are incredible and I miss you like MK misses her hobolicious sweater when it's at the dry cleaners.

rebs said...

hahaha wow that's a lot. did you ever even get my email?! did you get to see that hobolicious sweater?! i think i'm gonna make it my desktop picture and dream about it all day every day until i have it on my body with a cute little tag that says "Swan Cloyd Creations"

Haley said...

DUH. Of course I got your email! That's how I knew about the hobolicious sweater.

You dream away and I will glide calmly along the surface of this lake. Because I am a swan.